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Evaluative mediation: guided, not adversarial.
A fair, legally sound, workable settlement — achieved with dignity, structure and respect.
At Mediation Hub, we apply an evaluative mediation model — but this must be clearly understood.
Evaluative mediation does not mean litigation. It does not mean adversarial positioning. It does not mean that the mediator becomes a legal representative for either party.
It means you are not expected to make life-changing decisions in complete isolation or without understanding the legal framework within which your agreement must function.
In many purely facilitative models, parties are left to rely entirely on self-determination without structured input. While autonomy is important, divorce involves complex legal, financial and parental considerations. Total self-navigation without clarity can create uncertainty, imbalance, or unrealistic expectations.
There is a significant difference between legal guidance and legal advice. Our role is not to tell you what to do; it is to ensure you understand the context within which you are making decisions.
You are never left to fend for yourself or pressured into adversarial posturing. Instead, you are supported through structured guidance to reach fair, balanced and amicable solutions that are practically and legally sound.
A cornerstone of our process is shuttle mediation. Each party has the opportunity to communicate expectations honestly and safely, without direct confrontation.
This approach is particularly effective in high-conflict divorces, power-imbalanced relationships, situations involving emotional pressure, or cases where direct dialogue would derail progress.
On average, mediation is concluded within 4 to 5 structured sessions. Where minor children are involved, special care is taken to prioritise their best interests.
We believe cost anxiety destroys mediation. For this reason, we offer a package fee, determined after an assessment of the complexity of the matter. There are no surprise itemised charges for every email or phone call.
Mediation becomes counter-productive when participants feel stressed that every communication will result in another invoice. Open communication — without fear of runaway legal costs — is one of the most powerful drivers of amicable resolution.
Approximately 98% of our mediations are conducted electronically via Microsoft Teams. Over many years, we have found this to be just as effective as in-person sessions. Where proximity allows, in-person mediation remains available.
Divorce will always involve difficult decisions. It does not have to involve unnecessary hostility, financial devastation, or prolonged litigation.
If you are considering divorce mediation, contact us for a confidential assessment.
Six reflections shared by clients.
Adv. Etiene van Wyk’s divorce mediation was incredibly efficient and saved me so much money and heartache. His legal knowledge and mediation skills prevented unnecessary trauma, and I recommend this process to anyone facing a divorce.
I was initially dreading the divorce process, but Adv. Etiene van Wyk’s mediation made everything easier, faster, and far less costly. His approach helped me avoid excessive emotional strain, and I highly suggest this service to anyone in a similar situation.
Thanks to Adv. Etiene van Wyk’s skilled mediation, I was able to navigate my divorce with minimal financial and emotional cost. His expertise turned a challenging time into a manageable process, and I recommend his services to anyone contemplating divorce.
The divorce mediation with Adv. Etiene van Wyk was a lifesaver. His professionalism and knowledge kept the process efficient and respectful, saving me money and sparing me from unnecessary trauma. I recommend his services wholeheartedly.
I can’t thank Adv. Etiene van Wyk enough for his expert mediation during my divorce. His guidance saved me significant costs and emotional stress, and I strongly advise anyone considering divorce to use this invaluable process.
Adv. Etiene van Wyk’s mediation services made a difficult time much more bearable. His legal skills and efficiency minimised costs and trauma, and I recommend this approach to anyone facing a divorce—it truly makes a difference.
Your first consultation is R800, with no commitment to proceed.